Category Archives: HASHKAKA PRATIS

THE HIDDEN LIGHT – A HIDDEN SPARK

 

As Told to Y.B. and S.E. Falk by Rabbi Waxman Monsey N.Y.

 

B.S.D                                                                                                          ‏י”ב–אייר–תשס”ז

 

Reb Shaya came to our door one evening and asked if he could tell us a story. He knew that we “collect” incidents that reveal the amazing intricacies of Hashem’s hashgachah pratis and we are especially inspired by examples of outstanding emunah and bitachon.

 

When we heard Reb Shaya’s account of what he lived through and witnessed during the Holocaust, we wanted to ensure that this amazing tale of mesirus nefesh does not suffer the fate of many other stirring stories of incredible heroism in the service of Hashem that no doubt took place in the raging inferno of Europe in World War II but are lost to us.

 

We hope that this story of how one Jew’s extraordinary courage and sacrifice reveal the wondrous workings of the Creator’s awesome master plan will serve to illuminate the path for succeeding generations.

 

At the tender age of fifteen, Reb Shaya was deported to Auschwitz and from there to a work camp in Eastern Germany. He considered himself relatively fortunate because, unlike many others, he found himself in a camp where the guards did not beat the prisoners senseless or awaken them cruelly in the middle of the night. Nevertheless, they were fed little and suffered constant hunger, while enduring long hours of back-breaking labor in bitter cold with a minimum of clothing.

 

Among the many unfortunate souls in that camp, there was a very righteous Jew by the name of Chaim. He was an older man, yet he volunteered to work with a group of five strong, young men who were assigned to tote heavy metal rails to build a railroad loading station. Young Shaya also noticed that Chaim never ate his soup, which was the only hot dish given to the prisoners during the freezing evenings.

 

Shaya’s curiosity prompted him to ask Chaim for an explanation. Chaim, who had been the Rav of a (shtetl) small community before the war, explained that to save a life, a Jew is permitted to work on Shabbos, and any of the assigned jobs were permitted because their lives were in danger if they refused to do them. However, carrying the heavy rails on Shabbos would only infringe a prohibition of the Rabbanim rather than the stricter prohibition of the Torah. Performing other tasks like cutting or digging on Shabbos, which were less back-breaking, but they would involve the severer prohibition of de’Oraisa from the Torah.

 

As for the soup, Rav Chaim explained, he gave his daily portion of soup to bribe the camp “barber” to shave him with a hand-operated shaver rather than a straight-edged razor. Indeed Rav Chaim tried to avoid being shaved whenever possible. To avoid calling attention to his unshaven face during the daily roll call, he tried to stand in the middle of the four hundred plus prisoners.

 

On one occasion this strategy failed and the commandant noticed him for the first time. He called Rav Chaim forward and asked him where he worked.  The commandant, seeing that he was an older man, questioned the overseer why this man was assigned to the hardest work detail. The overseer informed the commandant that Rav Chaim not only volunteered but that he never took a day off, and was also one of the very best workers. The commandant insisted that he be transferred to a less demanding assignment.

Rav Chaim admitted to Reb Shaya that he took no time off because he didn’t want the other five men on his team to bear the extra burden his time off would have entailed.

Moreover, Rav Chaim whispered a nightly Torah lesson in the bunk that he and Shaya shared with six other men.  Those softly spoken words of Torah that Rav Chaim had so lovingly committed to memory in a different time and place provided solace and inspiration through the long dark nights in the camp.

 

Rav Chaim also carefully and clandestinely and at great risk kept track of the Jewish calendar by marking the days on pieces of paper that came in the bags of cement and were smuggled into the bunkhouse. He informed all the Jewish inmates of the arrival of Rosh Chodesh and the Yomim Tovim. The behavior of this tzaddik not only heartened and strengthened Reb Shaya, but remained with him as a lifelong example.

 

They were separated when most of the prisoners, Rav Chaim included, were taken on a forced march of hundreds of miles to flee the oncoming Russians before liberation. Reb Shaya, too ill to move, remained behind and miraculously survived. Now, more than sixty years later he told us the epilogue to this story.

 

Reb Shaya settled in Brooklyn after the war. One Shabbos more than thirty years later, a visiting guest sat down next to him in shul. After davening, he introduced himself to the visitor, who did not appear to be very religiously observant, and asked his name and from where he came. The man said that he had lived most of his life in Eretz Israel but was born in a shtetl in Europe. Reb Shaya gasped as he recalled that this was the town where Rav Chaim had been the Rav. Reb Shaya began to recount Rav Chaim’s unforgettable acts of tzidkus and mesirus nefesh in the camp during the war.

The visitor listened intently to each word and began to cry. When he regained his composure, he revealed that Rav Chaim was his father and that this was the first news he’d had of him since they were separated during the war. The two men embraced warmly and emotionally.

As a young man with no surviving relatives after the war, Rav Chaim’s son had been sent to an irreligious kibbutz in Eretz Yisrael by an organization that rescued orphaned survivors. A number of years later he married a girl from the kibbutz and they had one son.  Twenty plus years later, that son served as a tank commander during the Six Day War. In the first few days of the war, under intense shelling, the young commander lost a number of tanks and men under his command. During a quiet moment in the night, exhaustion overcame him and he slept. While he slept, he dreamed that he saw a pious-looking man who said that he was his grandfather and assured his grandson that he would survive the war if he began keeping Shabbos and the other mitzvos.

Awakened by loud shelling and still under the spell of his dream, he decided to commit himself to learn what it meant to be an observant Jew. By the end of the next day’s intense battle this young man’s tank was the only one of his entire command that was not destroyed.

True to his promise, after the war the young commander left the irreligious kibbutz where he had been raised and went to Yerushalayim to begin learning how to keep the Torah.

When he started living a life of Torah and observing the commandments, he asked his father and mother if they would also begin by keeeping the laws of Shabbos and kashrus. His parents were in a quandary. His mother had learned absolutely nothing about Judaism in her atheistic kibbutz and his father has stopped observing anything long before. They consulted some rabbis in Israel and listened to what they had to say. They happened to have a trip scheduled to the States at that time, and they decided to seek the guidance of one of the renowned (Admor) Grand Rabbi while in America. Their appointment with the Rebbe was scheduled for the next day of this “chance” meeting with Reb. Shaya.

Rav Chaim’s son, then with tears in his eyes, added that now he knew why he had to come to New York and why he had come to pray in this shul and had sat down next to Reb Shaya. This was clearly the Hand of G-d, pointing him along the way to a renewed commitment to his Jewish heritage.

After this astonishing experiencing, Rav Chaim’s son and daughter-in-law left the secular kibbutz and move to a religious community, where they were able to lead a Torah-observant life along with their son. Perhaps Rav Chaim’s extraordinary devotion to the sanctity of Shabbos and keeping the mitzvoth was the spark that remained hidden for many years and later ignited the souls of his grandson and then his son.

How wondrous are the ways of Hashem!

 

A GLIMPSE OF OUR EARTHLY – “MANNA” – HEAVENLY FOOD

 

After the exodus from Mitzrayim and passing through the Yam Suf , the Torah tells us of the miraculous “Heavenly food” that sustained our entire Jewish Nation for forty years in the desert. “Hashem said to Moshe, ‘Behold I shall rain down for you food from heaven; let the people go out and pick each day’s portion on its day, so that I can test them, whether they will follow My teaching or not’.”  Thus begins the Parsha of the Mann to which it is taught that whoever recites this parsha every day is assured that they will not lack sustenance.  The following is an amazing true story of some of the many forms manna can take.

Levi married during his third year of  learning in a ba’al teshuvah yeshiva in Eretz Yisrael and within the year he and his wife had the first of what was to be many children. After five years of marriage and their third child, the Six Day war was about to begin. Levi’s American parents requested the family return to the States for the duration of the war.  Levi and his wife reluctantly agreed to leave and within a week landed in New York only to find himself embroiled in another type of “war”

After a few days of settling in the family, in a small rented apartment,  Levi arose early one morning  so as to have  a proper amount of time for dovening and a leaning seder before beginning his pursuit of (parnosa) looking for a job.  Soon after Shachris, a dignified stranger approached Levi and asked whether he said the Parsha of the Mann each day.  The impressive looking man explained that it was written in the gemora Yerushalmi that whoever said the parsha of the  mann every day was assured of sustenance.

Levi shyly admitted that he did not and had not even heard of this minhag.  After the gentleman left, Levi began to consider his words as he wanted very much to believe this promise but the many earlier years in the secular world tended to make him skeptical about any phenomenon that could not be explained rationally. This was not a battle of physical prowess but a “inner war/struggle” of overcoming years of  educational and sociological influences.

Nonetheless, Levi had a deep desire to bridge the seemingly large gap between his spiritual goals and his worldly perceptions.  So before he left the shul, Levi opened the Chumash to the Parsha of the Mann and slowly began to read it. Someone raised in the religious community would have been able to complete this  Parsha in about five minutes, but Levy who hadn’t learn his first words of Hebrew until he was twenty-four took nearly one half hour trying to be precise in the correct pronunciation of each letter and phrase while at the same time making a sincere effort to place the meaning of those words in his heart.

Amazingly within seconds of  his finishing the Parsha another elderly man gently tapped Levi on the shoulder and after saying hello and introducing himself asked, “Young man, I see you are new to the schull, are you in need of a job?”  Amazed Levi asked him what he had in mind. The gentle man told him that he had a small factory and could  use some help at this time of the year.  Levi was speechless.   Within “toch kidei dibur” while the sounds of the parsha were still echoing from his lips and for the one and only time in his thirty years of life, he was approached with a job offer before he applied or for that matter even began to look for a job.  Levi thanked him profusely, took his telephone number and said he would consider the kind offer.

Walking slowly back to his rented apartment, he contemplated these events, events that most people whom he grew up with would have allocated to  a category called “serendipity” or coincidence  and not given a further thought, but  now he was deeply thinking about the timing of these events and the words of our Sages. That part of him that wanted to believe in – haskaka pratis – Divine intervention excitingly related the chain of mornings events to his family.

After breakfast, Levi began his efforts to look for a teaching job by beginning to call some of the local Yeshivas. Since it was in the middle of the school year, he didn’t expect that he would be able to get a full time job  but would be happy even with a substitute position. Amazingly, the Aibishter’s plans for him were somewhat different.  The principle of the very first Yeshiva Levi called, after hearing his articulate English and his educational background, offered him the possibility of a full time position for the remainder  of the school year. It was just that morning, the principle offered by way of explanation, that he learned that one of his teachers was immediately moving out of the area. The principle invited Levi to a meeting and told him that if everything was agreeable he could begin that very day.

Levi may have began the day with a certain narrow mind-set  but with these two and still further events would soon solidify a deep seeded respect and awe for words of our holy Sages. Just as he was about to leave for his teaching interview, the mailmen delivered their first  letter to this new address. They quickly opened the envelope and gasped.  Inside was a note which was from an aunt and uncle who explained that they could not recall whether they had sent a gift to Levi and his wife when their last baby was born several months before and added that if they had they should keep the enclosed check also for their needs. (True the letter was mailed a few days before but how many of you have received a nice size monetary gift on the first day you ever said the Parsha of the Mann.  By now Levi and his wife, who had indeed already received a check from his aunt and uncle were now starting to feel overwhelmed and at the same time very comforted that “Someone” above was looking out and arranging for them with not only for jobs but even bonuses.

Hold on to your to hats, folks, for we are not done yet.   A few minutes later, Levi decided to hitchhike  to the Yeshiva.  He watched several cars pass and finally a young religious man stopped his car and offered him a ride. As they drove Levi mentioned that he was on his way to begin his new job as an English teacher. The driver then struggled in   broken English to ask Levi if he had any free time to tutor him. He explained that  he was born in Eretz Israel and was now married and living here and  really felt the need to learn better English. By now Levi was in sheer awe by the offer of yet another  source of income and so he responded that he would be happy to do so if they could agree on a time and price. Levi took his number, and got out at his destination.

Within minutes of their meeting, the principle presented  the conditions of employment, to which he agreed and that very day Levy began teaching his new class.

When Levi arrived home later that evening, he was bubbling with the news of his teaching job and his possible tutoring job and did not imagine that his wife would be anything other than a happy excited listener.  That however was not the case.   His wife “jumped in first” by saying: “Guess what? While you were gone I got a call from the principle of the local girl’s school.  She had apparently gotten my name from one of our new neighbors.”  Levi’s wife continued:  “The principle said she was in desperate need of a substitute  because her regular teacher needed to take an abrupt  leave of absence.” Almost speechless yet at the same time full of thoughtful praise of the Creator for showing him that Manna can takes many forms, Levi realized that his previous skepticism was now a thing of the past and that “wars” can be won, if we cling One who created us.

P.S. – Oh by the way, Levi did take that tutoring job which continued twice weekly for more than six months and for the last thirty plus years he continues to recall these wondrous events especially as his is melodiously reading over the Parshas ha-Mann daily.

THE DIAMOND RING AND SHABBOS

This is an amazing incident that shows us the high level of mesrius nefesh an ordinary Jew can attain and how far the ripples of its influence can reach.

After Reuven, who was learning full time at Yeshiva, became engaged – a chassan, his father one day entrusted him with a large sum of cash in order to purchase a diamond ring for his kallah. Reuven set out on his mission Erev Shabbos in the late morning as he felt that this time would least interfere with his learning seder. Before leaving his father wished him well.

Even though hub of jewelry stores were usually only half hour bus ride, because of heavy roadwork, the trip took a much longer long. By the time Reuvan arrived at his destination he since the arrival of Shabbos was coming closer he quickly looked at a number of rings but he didn’t feel he had found the one he wanted to purchase. Reuvan strengthened his resolve that everything is from Heaven and ultimately for the good, turned around and began his trip back home. During the subway ride home, Reuvan began to feel a little tired so he closed his eyes, for what he thought would be a few minutes, however when he woke up he realized that he had well passed the stop for his home and now traveling in the wrong direction. With Shabbos soon approaching he quickly got off the train and hailed down a taxi. Unfortunately, the taxi moved like a snail as the traffic was very congested this time due to an accident that still wasn’t cleared. Reuvan realized that at this pace that he wouldn’t get home in time, so he started to review in his mind his halacic obligations in order to any transgression of Shabbos. Being it was the winter time with very short days, candle lighting was quickly approaching. Finally, a let up in the heavy traffic allowed them to move along at a jiffy pace reaching an area not so far from his house just minutes left till Shabbos. Reuvan decided he couldn’t chance staying in the taxi any longer so he immediately paid the driver thanked him and exited.

Now Reuven’s concern was the large sum of money that he had with him. He looked around him and saw that he had exited the taxi right in front of a large store that was open. He went in and looked around. It was full of salespeople and customers, but he saw an office off to the side and through the glass door, he could see an elderly man sitting behind a desk. Reuven knocked and entered. With a quick excuse for interrupting the man at his work, he explained that he was a religious Jew and would have to leave his wallet somewhere because it was just a few minutes until the Jewish Sabbath and he couldn’t carry it with him.

 

The man looked at him strangely but he apparently felt that Reuven was sincere and asked how he could be of service. Reuven said he was carrying a large sum of money and asked the man if he would hold it for him until after Shabbos. The man nodded, accepted Reuven’s wallet and placed it in an envelope. Reuven thanked the gentleman and left immediately.

 

Reuven walked briskly home, relieved that he had not transgressed the Shabbos. After Shabbos second thoughts assailed him and he berated himself for having given that man his money without any witnesses or receipt. Would he now even be able to find the man? Would the man admit to having received the money and most importantly, would he return it? These and other thoughts and suspicions filled his mind. With a deep resolve not to worry, for he felt he had done the right thing, he pushed away these worries and continued his learning.

 

The next day after davening Reuven returned to the store where he had left his wallet. There was the same man sitting behind his desk. He knocked and entered the office.

 

“Do you remember me?” Reuven asked.

“Yes,” the man said noncommittally.

 

“Can I now have my wallet back?” The elderly man looked Reuven in the eyes for what seemed like forever, stood up in silence and went into a back room. Reuven was tense, but he strengthened himself with the thought that he had managed to not transgress the Shabbos and that was worth more than money. After what seemed an eternity, the man came back with an envelope in his hand, which he turned over to Reuven. In it was Reuven’s wallet – intact.

 

Reuven was relieved, to put it mildly. He was also so overwhelmed by this man’s honesty, that he couldn’t withhold his admiration and praised him profusely. The elderly man then answered in a European Yiddish “Nu, what do expect from a fellow Jew?”

 

Reuven was astonished. He had no idea the man was a Jew. The elderly man, who was the owner of this business, then told Reuven: “After you left my store and all during Shabbos my conscious started hounding me. Through the harshness I experienced during Holocaust I had given up all signs of my Jewish ness, but your mesirus nefesh and dedication to the sanctity of the holy Shabbos now reawakened in me the will to do return to the ways of my tradition – teshuvah.” He then concluded: “ From now on, thanks to you, this store will be closed on Shabbos!”

They spontaneously fell into each other’s arms with tears in their eyes with Reuven now realizing what a great “investment” he had made after all. From that day on, for the first time in decades, this precious Jewish soul would again be “reinvesting” his life in the service of Hashem. Well – it came out that Reuvan did find a diamond after all that day – the diamond within the soul of that Jew.

 

As told to Y.B. & S.E. Falk by Rabbi H. Waxman

Monsey N.Y.

WALK BEFORE ME AND BE PERFECT

Have you ever asked yourself how it is possible to achieve a perfect scorecard in one’s lifetime? After all, there is an expression that says we learn through our mistakes? Indeed, it is written that “a tzaddik fall seven times …”

It might be worthwhile for us to revisit the possuk) in Bereishis that set the standard for this seemingly impossible goal. “When Avram was ninety-nine years old, Hashem appeared to him and said, ‘I am the Almghty G-d; walk before Me and be perfect.’” – Genesis (Bereishis) 17:1.

On a deeper level,  if we understand that being perfect does not mean being flawless, then we we can appreciate what Rav S.R. Hirsch  has taught. He points out that the word for walk in Hebrew is not telech but hesalech, which means “Go your way despite opposition [so that] your progress [is not ] dependent on external circumstances but [rather comes] from within yourself … from your own free-willed decisions.” Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski says this means that even though we cannot live our entire lives without flaw, we can still “be perfect
if I (we) make free-willed decisions to obey the Divine will.

To achieve this type of “walking before G-d consciousness,” we must relinquish our self-interest when it varies from the ways of the Torah, as our friend Yankel* found out. Yankel had a very large sum of money invested in the market in bonds. He decided to take the
entire amount and reinvest it in a more lucrative, albeit more risky, stock for two weeks.

On the very first day his new stock jumped in early trading because it was understood that the Federal Bank would lower interest rates that day. Before the Fed’s announcement the market was already up over 2% and Yankel began doubting his original strategy of holding the stock for two weeks. Therefore he decided, If the value of the stock goes up more
than 3% today, I will immediately return my money to the “safer” haven of bonds
. The market ended the session up 3½%, increasing the value of Yankel’s stock many thousands of dollars.

At this point, making money was the easy part of Yankel’s challenge for the battle raged within him about a continuing strategy. His original plan to hold on to the stock for two weeks now seemed too risky for he could easily lose all his gains. An inner voice rationalized
that it would be better to cash in now, while another voice urged him to keep
the stocks for just one more day, since the interest rates had now just been
lowered, which usually raises the value of stocks.

Well, lessons in life often come with a sting in the tail. The stock market plummeted to a bit over 2½% the next day, and Yankel’s stock dropped accordingly. True, Yankel still remained with a modest profit, but now more importantly he felt an even greater loss in that
maybe he had compromised his personal integrity by wavering from his original decision.

To make matters worse, right after Yankel had the stock sold the value of that stock continued again rise over 1% on each of the next three days. Now Yankel realized that changing his mind twice had cost him dearly.

Part of following the Divine will is to cultivate within oneself the highest standard of integrity, which includes living up to one’s own decisions even when no one else is involved.
This is a mundane but clear application of the words of Rav Hirsch: “Go your
ways despite of opposition … do not depend on external circumstances, but …
[stick to] your own free-willed decisions.”

The story continues, however. Yankel had arranged to go back into the market for two days and then sell them before the fast of Esther, so as not to be distracted by thinking about them during the fast and on Purim. Amazingly on Shushan Purim when Yankel
checked the value of his account, which had gone up by leaps and bounds, did he
happily discover that his attempted stock sale before the fast had failed to go
through and all of the large gain of those few days were now part of his assets.

As we know, the concepts of mehapech hu and ad shelo yada are associated with Purim. Yankel’s pleasant surprise was a fulfillment of both. The Creator of the world has many ways to provide what is meant for us. We clearly see that Divine governance, not our own
reasoning, logic or ingenuity, has the final say.

P.S. The amount that Yankel received from the “gift” of Purim was almost the exact same amount that he had missed out on before.

*Name changed to protect privacy.

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A BEHIND THE SCENES GLIMPSE OF OUR EARTHLY “MANNA”

 

             After the exodus from Mitzrayim
and passing through the Yam Suf , the Torah tells us of the miraculous
“Heavenly food” that sustained our entire Jewish Nation for forty years in the
desert. “Hashem said to Moshe, ‘Behold I shall rain down for you food from
heaven; let the people go out and pick each day’s portion on its day, so that I
can test them, whether they will follow My teaching or not’.”  Thus begins the Parsha of the Mann to which it
is taught that whoever recites this parsha every day is assured that they will
not lack sustenance.  The following is an
amazing true story of some of the many forms manna can take.

              Levi married during his third
year of  learning in a ba’al teshuvah
yeshiva in Eretz Yisrael and within the year he and his wife had the first of
what was to be many children. After five years of marriage and their third
child, the Six Day war was about to begin. Levi’s American parents requested
the family return to the States for the duration of the war.  Levi and his wife reluctantly agreed to leave
and within a week landed in New York
only to find himself embroiled in another type of “war”

   After a few days of settling in the family,
in a small rented apartment,  Levi arose
early one morning  so as to have  a proper amount of time for dovening and a
leaning seder before beginning his pursuit of (parnosa) looking for a job.  Soon after Shachris, a dignified stranger approached
Levi and asked whether he said the Parsha of the Mann each day.  The impressive looking man explained that it
was written in the gemora Yerushalmi that whoever said the parsha of the  mann every day was assured of sustenance.

 Levi shyly admitted that he did not and had
not even heard of this minhag.  After the
gentleman left, Levi began to consider his words as he wanted very much to
believe this promise but the many earlier years in the secular world tended to
make him skeptical about any phenomenon that could not be explained rationally.
This was not a battle of physical prowess but a “inner war/struggle” of
overcoming years of  educational and
sociological influences.

Nonetheless, Levi had
a deep desire to bridge the seemingly large gap between his spiritual goals and
his worldly perceptions.  So before he
left the shul, Levi opened the Chumash to the Parsha of the Mann and slowly began
to read it. Someone raised in the religious community would have been able to
complete this  Parsha in about five
minutes, but Levy who hadn’t learn his first words of Hebrew until he was
twenty-four took nearly one half hour trying to be precise in the correct
pronunciation of each letter and phrase while at the same time making a sincere
effort to place the meaning of those words in his heart.

Amazingly within
seconds of  his finishing the Parsha another
elderly man gently tapped Levi on the shoulder and after saying hello and
introducing himself asked, “Young man, I see you are new to the schull, are you
in need of a job?”  Amazed Levi asked him
what he had in mind. The gentle man told him that he had a small factory and
could  use some help at this time of the
year.  Levi was speechless.   Within “toch kidei dibur” while the sounds
of the parsha were still echoing from his lips and for the one and only time in
his thirty years of life, he was approached with a job offer before he applied
or for that matter even began to look for a job.  Levi thanked him profusely, took his telephone
number and said he would consider the kind offer.

               Walking slowly back to his
rented apartment, he contemplated these events, events that most people whom he
grew up with would have allocated to  a
category called “serendipity” or coincidence 
and not given a further thought, but 
now he was deeply thinking about the timing of these events and the
words of our Sages. That part of him that wanted to believe in – haskaka pratis
– Divine intervention excitingly related the chain of mornings events to his
family.

After breakfast, Levi began
his efforts to look for a teaching job by beginning to call some of the local
Yeshivas. Since it was in the middle of the school year, he didn’t expect that he
would be able to get a full time job  but
would be happy even with a substitute position. Amazingly, the Aibishter’s
plans for him were somewhat different.  The
principle of the very first Yeshiva Levi called, after hearing his articulate
English and his educational background, offered him the possibility of a full
time position for the remainder  of the
school year. It was just that morning, the principle offered by way of
explanation, that he learned that one of his teachers was immediately moving
out of the area. The principle invited Levi to a meeting and told him that if
everything was agreeable he could begin that very day.

 Levi may have began the day with a certain narrow
mind-set  but with these two and still further
events would soon solidify a deep seeded respect and awe for words of our holy
Sages. Just as he was about to leave for his teaching interview, the mailmen delivered
their first  letter to this new address. They
quickly opened the envelope and gasped. 
Inside was a note which was from an aunt and uncle who explained that they
could not recall whether they had sent a gift to Levi and his wife when their last
baby was born several months before and added that if they had they should keep
the enclosed check also for their needs. (True the letter was mailed a few days
before but how many of you have received a nice size monetary gift on the first
day you ever said the Parsha of the Mann. 
By now Levi and his wife, who had indeed already received a check from
his aunt and uncle were now starting to feel overwhelmed and at the same time
very comforted that “Someone” above was looking out and arranging for them with
not only for jobs but even bonuses.

                  Hold on to your to hats, folks, for we
are not done yet.   A few minutes later,
Levi decided to hitchhike  to the Yeshiva.
 He watched several cars pass and finally
a young religious man stopped his car and offered him a ride. As they drove Levi
mentioned that he was on his way to begin his new job as an English teacher.
The driver then struggled in   broken English to ask Levi if he had any free
time to tutor him. He explained that  he
was born in Eretz Israel
and was now married and living here and 
really felt the need to learn better English. By now Levi was in sheer
awe by the offer of yet another  source
of income and so he responded that he would be happy to do so if they could
agree on a time and price. Levi took his number, and got out at his
destination.

                 Within minutes of their
meeting, the principle presented  the
conditions of employment, to which he agreed and that very day Levy began
teaching his new class.

            When Levi arrived home later that
evening, he was bubbling with the news of his teaching job and his possible
tutoring job and did not imagine that his wife would be anything other than a
happy excited listener.  That however was
not the case.   His wife “jumped in
first” by saying: “Guess what? While you were gone I got a call from the
principle of the local girl’s school.  She
had apparently gotten my name from one of our new neighbors.”  Levi’s wife continued:  “The principle said she was in desperate need
of a substitute  because her regular
teacher needed to take an abrupt  leave
of absence.” Almost speechless yet at the same time full of thoughtful praise
of the Creator for showing him that Manna can takes many forms, Levi realized
that his previous skepticism was now a thing of the past and that “wars” can be
won, if we cling One who created us.

          P.S. – Oh by the way, Levi did take
that tutoring job which continued twice weekly for more than six months and for
the last thirty plus years he continues to recall these wondrous events
especially as his is melodiously reading over the Parshas ha-Mann daily.

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THE HIDDEN LIGHT – told to us from Rabbi Waxman – Monsey N.Y.

                              

Reb
Shaya came to our door one evening and asked if he could tell us a story. He
knew that we “collect” incidents that reveal the amazing intricacies of
Hashem’s hashgachah pratis and we are especially inspired by examples of
outstanding emunah and bitachon.

 

When we
heard Reb Shaya’s account of what he lived through and witnessed during the
Holocaust, we wanted to ensure that this amazing tale of mesirus nefesh does
not suffer the fate of many other stirring stories of incredible heroism in the
service of Hashem that no doubt took place in the raging inferno of Europe in
World War II but are lost to us.

 

We hope
that this story of how one Jew’s extraordinary courage and sacrifice reveal the
wondrous workings of the Creator’s awesome master plan will serve to illuminate
the path for succeeding generations.

 

At the
tender age of fifteen, Reb Shaya was deported to Auschwitz
and from there to a work camp in Eastern Germany.
He considered himself relatively fortunate because, unlike many others, he
found himself in a camp where the guards did not beat the prisoners senseless
or awaken them cruelly in the middle of the night. Nevertheless, they were fed
little and suffered constant hunger, while enduring long hours of back-breaking
labor in bitter cold with a minimum of clothing.

 

Among
the many unfortunate souls in that camp, there was a very righteous Jew by the
name of Chaim. He was an older man, yet he volunteered to work with a
group of five strong, young men who were assigned to tote heavy metal rails to
build a railroad loading station. Young Shaya also noticed that Chaim never ate
his soup, which was the only hot dish given to the prisoners during the
freezing evenings.

 

Shaya’s curiosity
prompted him to ask Chaim for an explanation. Chaim, who had been the Rav of a (shtetl)
small community before the war, explained that to save a life, a Jew is
permitted to work on Shabbos, and any of the assigned jobs were permitted
because their lives were in danger if they refused to do them. However, carrying
the heavy rails on Shabbos would only infringe a prohibition of the Rabbanim
rather than the stricter prohibition of the Torah. Performing other tasks like
cutting or digging on Shabbos, which were less back-breaking, but they would
involve the severer prohibition of de’Oraisa from the Torah.

 

As for
the soup, Rav Chaim explained, he gave his daily portion of soup to bribe the camp
“barber” to shave him with a hand-operated shaver rather than a straight-edged razor.
Indeed Rav Chaim tried to avoid being shaved whenever possible. To avoid calling
attention to his unshaven face during the daily roll call, he tried to stand in
the middle of the four hundred plus prisoners. 

 

On one
occasion this strategy failed and the commandant noticed him for the first
time. He called Rav Chaim forward and asked him where he worked.  The commandant, seeing that he was an older
man, questioned the overseer why this man was assigned to the hardest work
detail. The overseer informed the commandant that Rav Chaim not only volunteered
but that he never took a day off, and was also one of the very best workers. The
commandant insisted that he be transferred to a less demanding assignment.

Rav
Chaim admitted to Reb Shaya that he took no time off because he didn’t want the
other five men on his team to bear the extra burden his time off would have
entailed.

Moreover,
Rav Chaim whispered a nightly Torah lesson in the bunk that he and Shaya shared
with six other men.  Those softly spoken
words of Torah that Rav Chaim had so lovingly committed to memory in a
different time and place provided solace and inspiration through the long dark
nights in the camp.  

 

Rav
Chaim also carefully and clandestinely and at great risk kept track of the
Jewish calendar by marking the days on pieces of paper that came in the bags of
cement and were smuggled into the bunkhouse. He informed all the Jewish inmates
of the arrival of Rosh Chodesh and the Yomim Tovim. The behavior of this
tzaddik not only heartened and strengthened Reb Shaya, but remained with
him as a lifelong example.

 

They
were separated when most of the prisoners, Rav Chaim included, were taken on a
forced march of hundreds of miles to flee the oncoming Russians before
liberation. Reb Shaya, too ill to move, remained behind and miraculously survived.
Now, more than sixty years later he told us the epilogue to this story.

 

Reb
Shaya settled in Brooklyn after the war. One
Shabbos more than thirty years later, a visiting guest sat down next to him in
shul. After davening, he introduced himself to the visitor, who did not
appear to be very religiously observant, and asked his name and from where he
came. The man said that he had lived most of his life in Eretz Israel but was
born in a shtetl in Europe. Reb Shaya gasped
as he recalled that this was the town where Rav Chaim had been the Rav. Reb
Shaya began to recount Rav Chaim’s unforgettable acts of tzidkus and mesirus
nefesh
in the camp during the war.

The
visitor listened intently to each word and began to cry. When he regained his
composure, he revealed that Rav Chaim was his father and that this was the
first news he’d had of him since they were separated during the war. The two
men embraced warmly and emotionally.

As a
young man with no surviving relatives after the war, Rav Chaim’s son had been
sent to an irreligious kibbutz in Eretz Yisrael by an organization that rescued
orphaned survivors. A number of years later he married a girl from the kibbutz
and they had one son.  Twenty plus years
later, that son served as a tank commander during the Six Day War. In the first
few days of the war, under intense shelling, the young commander lost a number
of tanks and men under his command. During a quiet moment in the night,
exhaustion overcame him and he slept. While he slept, he dreamed that he saw a pious-looking
man who said that he was his grandfather and assured his grandson that he would
survive the war if he began keeping Shabbos and the other mitzvos.

Awakened
by loud shelling and still under the spell of his dream, he decided to commit
himself to learn what it meant to be an observant Jew. By the end of the next
day’s intense battle this young man’s tank was the only one of his entire
command that was not destroyed.

True to
his promise, after the war the young commander left the irreligious kibbutz
where he had been raised and went to Yerushalayim to begin learning how to keep
the Torah.

When he
started living a life of Torah and observing the commandments, he asked his
father and mother if they would also begin by keeeping the laws of Shabbos and
kashrus. His parents were in a quandary. His mother had learned absolutely
nothing about Judaism in her atheistic kibbutz and his father has stopped
observing anything long before. They consulted some rabbis in Israel and
listened to what they had to say. They happened to have a trip scheduled to the
States at that time, and they decided to seek the guidance of one of the renowned
(Admor) Grand Rabbi while in America. Their appointment with the Rebbe
was scheduled for the next day of this “chance” meeting with Reb. Shaya.

Rav
Chaim’s son, then with tears in his eyes, added that now he knew why he had to
come to New York and why he had come to pray in this shul and had sat down next
to Reb Shaya. This was clearly the Hand of G-d, pointing him along the way to a
renewed commitment to his Jewish heritage.

After
this astonishing experiencing, Rav Chaim’s son and daughter-in-law left the
secular kibbutz and move to a religious community, where they were able to lead
a Torah-observant life along with their son. Perhaps Rav Chaim’s extraordinary devotion
to the sanctity of Shabbos and keeping the mitzvoth was the spark that remained
hidden for many years and later ignited the souls of his grandson and then his
son.

How
wondrous are the ways of Hashem!

 

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THE RIGHT WORDS – TRUE STORY

                                                        
           Our teachers (Rabbanim) teach us that the duration of our lives can be counted in words not just years. When we have used our quota of words, we leave this world.  Of course, words of Torah and words used in the performance of mitzvos are not included in this count. It could well be that for those who have dedicated their lives to some productive endeavor, it is the completion of their portion of that work that marks the end point, but only when it is the right time.
Joseph’s grandmother, then in her nineties counted her years in terms of stitches of embroidery — so many beautiful tableaus, tablecloths, bed linens and pillows so lovingly and artfully hand-stitched and given to her children, grandchildren and friends. Now she was so ill that she didn’t even have the strength to thread a needle or weave it through the delicate material.
Her grandson Joseph, who heard that his beloved grandmother had taken a turn for the worse, found an unexpected opportunity to visit her when a well-known Rabbi offered him the position of being his assistant (gabbai) during a short trip he was planning to the West Coast.  Joseph accepted the offer eagerly, but on condition that he could have a few hours off to visit his grandmother in Los Angeles.
So, on a bright, sunny California afternoon Joseph set off to see his grandmother.  She still lived in her own home but was attended by a full-time nurse.  For Joseph, who had been raised in California in a Reform environment, this was his first return trip since he had started a new life as an Orthodox Jew twenty-five years before. His grandmother was naturally delighted to see him, and he was very grateful to be able to visit with her as she had been a very special influence in his life. She had, with great effort, made a special trip to the East Coast to visit Joseph and his family and see her only great-grandchildren just two years earlier.
Joseph sat with her for a long time and in quiet conversation touched the cords of the special bond they shared. Toward the end of the visit and with no prelude, Joseph’s grandmother startled him by asking bluntly, “Why am I still alive?” Taken aback, Joseph wondered what prompted this question.   His grandmother, seeing the puzzled look on his face, explained that she had lived until recently a very self-sufficient life and had taken particular pleasure in her needlecraft, but now all she could do was lie in bed, feeling weak and useless.
            Joseph hesitated for several moments, silently asking Hashem to put the right words in his mouth.
 “Every moment in a person’s life, even when a person finds himself in circumstances like yours, there is an opportunity to do a good deed, like for example, sharing an encouraging word with another, being an empathetic listener or even just silently offering praise to the Creator for all He has done and continues to do.”
“Our body, you see, is like a garment that the soul “sheds” when it is no longer needed, but our holy soul, which is really who we are, is never extinguished.”   His grandmother, who had been brought up as a Reform Jewess seemed now to begin to understand this rather lofty concept and thanked him profusely for his words of comfort and consolation. Parting company from each other was not easy, and they both knew that this would probably be the last time they would ever see each other.
A few months later, on a leil Shabbos evening, a sweet baby girl was born to Joseph and his wife. Very late on motza’ei Shabbos, when Shabbos was over in California, Joseph called his parents to tell them the wonderful news, and then his grandmother. A nurse answered the telephone and said that his grandmother was sleeping and had been only semi-conscious most of the week. He was about to hang up without leaving a message, but the nurse recognized his voice and reminded him that they had met when he was in Los Angeles. Something prompted Joseph to tell her that he was now the proud father of a newborn daughter.
Early the next morning, Joseph’s mother called to tell him that his grandmother had passed away during the night. He was of course greatly saddened by her passing, but on top of that he was disappointed that he had been unable to give her one last pleasure — the good news of the birth of another great-grandchild, and he told his mother so.
“Oh, but that’s not so,” his mother said. “Your grandmother awakened one more time during the night, and even though the nurse believed she wasn’t fully conscious, she told her your good news. To her astonishment, for the first time in a week your grandmother fully opened her eyes wide and smiled. The nurse told me that her eyes were shining and radiated an inner joy for a few seconds; then she feel asleep and later that night passed away”  Joseph’s grandmother had tarried just long enough to hear the good news and no doubt offer a silent prayer of thanks..
 
To round out this amazing sequence of events, Joseph’s Shabbos gift was his seventh child; his grandmother was also born on Shabbos was one of seven children. The following Monday morning during the reading of the Torah (keriyas HaTorah), the new born baby was named after Joseph’s grandmother. If it was necessary for her soul to return to this world, there was already a new “home” in which to dwell, with fresh opportunities to continue to do good deeds and praise of the Creator for all that was, is and will be.

 

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A GOOD WORD CAN CHANGE ONES DIRECTION IN LIFE

         How often have we spent time and
energy trying to help others seemingly without positive results?   When this happens, we find it difficult to
understand just how we could have dedicated so much time to such a fruitless
task.  If you have ever had this
experience or are, even now, ready to give up because you don’t think you are
accomplishing anything, read on and perhaps you will change your mind.

             This true story happened in the sixties,
when coming of age in this Country took the form of rebellion against the
status quo.  For some, this meant trading
all of the trappings of materialism– expensive clothes, luxury cars and a
college education– for a backpack and a one way ticket to the East where they
hoped to find direction in their search for a ‘spiritual’ path.   Many of those young people were
unfortunately assimilated Jews who knew little or nothing about Torah and
its  answer to these questions, but
nonetheless, with Hashem’s kindness some B.H. managed to find their way to the
land (Eretz) of Yisrael where they ultimately came to learn about and live a
life imbued with the ideals of Torah. This story is about one of these young men
who we know and will call Yehuda.



Yehuda was learning in a beginners
(Ba’al Teshuva-Yeshiva-Kollel) school. One day, he noticed a new young man
arrive that reminded himself how he looked five years earlier, with his long
hair, torn jeans and back pack.  Yehuda
at the first opportunity introduced himself to this obviously introspective
young man, whose name was Joey. Since their personalities were of like nature,
Yehuda made extra efforts to help Joey any way he could including learning with
him.

               Each time they learned or were
together, Yehuda tried to introduce him to (Yiddishkeit) his Jewish roots
through its eternal laws and through its beautiful ethical teachings trying to
inspire Joey to appreciate his Jewish heritage, but he unfortunately seemed to
have more interest about making his way to the Far East and kept plying Yehuda
with questions about his own stay there five years earlier.                                   

            One evening, a few weeks later, at
about nine o’clock there was a knock at the door of Yehuda’s apartment. It was
Joey asking if they could talk privately. After inviting him in and offering
some light refreshments, Joey divulged to Yehuda that he had decided to leave
the Yeshiva and world of Torah with his eyes directed towards India. Joey was
clearly sitting with Yehuda in order to try to pry some names and addresses of
people that he had met while he had travelled in that part of the world.



  Yehuda, on the other hand, used the
opportunity to launch a ‘last ditch’ effort upon Joey’s decision by trying to
inspire him in keeping his connection with our precious Jewish heritage through
the path of the Torah. However, about midnight, Yehuda, starting to feel very
tired and a little discouraged, felt like ending the conversation as he had
obligations the next morning at the Kollel and the two of them seemed to have
reached a ‘grid lock’ between their different ideologies.  However, Yehuda rekindled the conversation
with some challenging questions about the deeper purpose of life and the role
of  the Jewish people. Still after all
Yehuda’s efforts, Joey did finally say good night at about two thirty in the
morning thanking Yehuda for his time, and explaining that his decision was
still firm that he intended to leave the Yeshiva tomorrow and start his journey
to the far East stopping only to visit a relative in England for a few days.

               Indeed, the next day, Joey was
gone, Yehuda was tired and a little let
down from what appeared to
have been a fruitless effort.



                It is now six years later:
Yehuda and his family were visiting friends in their large Succah in Jerusalem.
During the festive meal (seuda) a man of about thirty years of age dressed fully
as an Orthodox Jew approached him. 
Smiling, the young man asked, “Do you recognize me?” “The voice is
familiar,” Yehuda slowly replied, trying to place this person who now had a
full beard. Then this young man’s smile became very broad and warm with his
dark brown eyes glowing as he began to speak: 
“Six years ago I was a new student at 
Yeshiva______________.   I was
having a hard time and a very special person spent half the night talking to
me.”  Now, Yehuda was truly incredulous
as he began to remember. The young man continued: “I kept my plans and left the
Yeshiva that night, however while on the plane to England, the first leg of my
journey, something you said that night started to bother me. I tried to ignore
it but could not get it out of my mind. I decided that the only way it would
let me be is if I could clarify the issue. 
When we landed in England, I decided to look for a Yeshiva and put the
question to one of the Rabannim.  As soon
as I got my answer, I would be on my way. 
I made my way to Yeshiva______ and approached one of the Rabbis. After
introducing myself  I asked him the
perplexing question that you had asked me about what it truly means to be born
Jewish in a world with over six billion people?”

 “The Rav undoubtedly saw where I was heading
and how important a question it was to me. 
He sat me down and spoke as a loving father would speak to a son. The
conversation continued until I felt comfortable explaining my plans. The Rav
invited me to stay for Shabbos and somehow I found myself accepting his
invitation.  This meant  postponing my flight to India for a few days
but the Rav’s warmth and intelligent answers rekindled a new inspiration within
me to spend a few more days rethinking my future. By the end of  the holy Shabbos I was recommitted to try
again to stay and learn in a Yeshiva. This wonderful Rav offered to arrange for
me learning partners (cavursos) throughout the day and I was able B.H. to
advance very nicely in my learning and general Yiddishkite. It is now six years
later and  I am, B.H., still learning
full time but now in the Yeshiva’s  (kollel)
school as I merited to marry and have already a few lovely little children.”



With soft tones and a voice
that resonated from deep within his heart, Yosef  then told Yehuda, “I want to take this
opportunity  to thank you for befriending
me and for not giving up on me even when I seemed so hopelessly lost. The
question you ask me about my Jewishness, I had already heard from others before
but apparently there needed to be another ‘ingredient’ in the ‘recipe’  allowing me to ‘sit up and take notice’  of its importance.  That additional invaluable spice was your
misiras

nefesh –
giving
up your time, effort and energy to help reach out to a fellow Yid. Well, Joseph
continued: “Through that selfless effort of yours well into the middle of the
night, I not only was later able to find out why I am Jewish but was shown by
you how a Jew  should act..”

P.S. : Oh yes, that ticket to
the Far East was never used and 
fortunately will never be used.    

 May all the Jewish people merit to find their
way back home even if we never know how we have helped them!

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THE HIDDEN LIGHT – A HIDDEN SPARK – wonderous story

 

            Reb
Shaya came to our door one evening and asked if he could tell us a story. He
knew that we “collect” incidents that reveal the amazing intricacies of
Hashem’s hashgachah pratis and we are especially inspired by examples of
outstanding emunah and bitachon.

 

When we
heard Reb Shaya’s account of what he lived through and witnessed during the
Holocaust, we wanted to ensure that this amazing tale of mesirus nefesh does
not suffer the fate of many other stirring stories of incredible heroism in the
service of Hashem that no doubt took place in the raging inferno of Europe in
World War II but are lost to us.

 

We hope
that this story of how one Jew’s extraordinary courage and sacrifice reveal the
wondrous workings of the Creator’s awesome master plan will serve to illuminate
the path for succeeding generations.

 

At the
tender age of fifteen, Reb Shaya was deported to Auschwitz
and from there to a work camp in Eastern Germany.
He considered himself relatively fortunate because, unlike many others, he
found himself in a camp where the guards did not beat the prisoners senseless
or awaken them cruelly in the middle of the night. Nevertheless, they were fed
little and suffered constant hunger, while enduring long hours of back-breaking
labor in bitter cold with a minimum of clothing.

 

Among
the many unfortunate souls in that camp, there was one righteous Jew by the
name of Chaim. He was an older man, yet he volunteered to work with a
group of five strong, young men who were assigned to tote heavy metal rails to
build a railroad loading station. Young Shaya also noticed that Chaim never ate
his soup, which was the only hot dish given to the prisoners all day.

 

Shaya’s curiosity
prompted him to ask Chaim for an explanation. Chaim, who had been the Rav of a shtetl
before the war, explained that to save a life, a Jew is permitted to work on
Shabbos, and any of the assigned jobs were permitted because their lives were
in danger if they refused to do them. However, carrying the heavy rails on
Shabbos would only infringe a prohibition of the Rabbanim rather than the stricter
prohibition of the Torah. Performing other tasks like cutting or digging on
Shabbos, which were less back-breaking, but they would involve the severer
prohibition of de’Oraisa.

 

As for
the soup, Rav Chaim explained, he gave his daily portion of soup to bribe the camp
“barber” to shave him with a hand-operated shaver rather than a straight-edged razor.
Indeed Rav Chaim tried to avoid being shaved whenever possible. To avoid calling
attention to his unshaven face during the daily roll call, he tried to stand in
the middle of the four hundred plus prisoners. 

 

On one
occasion this strategy failed and the commandant noticed him for the first
time. He called Rav Chaim forward and asked him where he worked.  The commandant, seeing that he was an older
man, questioned the overseer why this man was assigned to the hardest work
detail. The overseer informed the commandant that Rav Chaim not only volunteered
but that he never took a day off, and was also one of the very best workers. The
commandant insisted that he be transferred to a less demanding assignment.

Rav
Chaim admitted to Reb Shaya that he took no time off because he didn’t want the
other five men on his team to bear the extra burden his time off would have
entailed.

Moreover,
Rav Chaim whispered a nightly Torah lesson in the bunk that he and Shaya shared
with six other men.  Those softly spoken
words of Torah that Rav Chaim had so lovingly committed to memory in a
different time and place provided solace and inspiration through the long dark
nights in the camp.  

 

Rav
Chaim also carefully and clandestinely and at great risk kept track of the
Jewish calendar by marking the days on pieces of paper that came in the bags of
cement and were smuggled into the bunkhouse. He informed all the Jewish inmates
of the arrival of Rosh Chodesh and the Yomim Tovim. The behavior of this
tzaddik not only heartened and strengthened Reb Shaya, but remained with
him as a lifelong example.

 

They
were separated when most of the prisoners, Rav Chaim included, were taken on a
forced march of hundreds of miles to flee the oncoming Russians before
liberation. Reb Shaya, too ill to move, remained behind and miraculously survived.
Now, more than sixty years later he told us the epilogue to this story.

 

Reb
Shaya settled in Brooklyn after the war. One
Shabbos more than thirty years later, a new man sat down next to him in shul. After
davening, he introduced himself to the visitor, who did not appear to be
very observant, and asked his name and from where he came. The man said that he
had lived most of his life in Eretz Israel but was born in a shtetl in Europe. Reb Shaya gasped as he recalled that this was the
town where Rav Chaim had been the Rav. Reb Shaya began to recount Rav Chaim’s unforgettable
acts of tzidkus and mesirus nefesh in the camp during the war.

The
visitor listened intently to each word and began to cry. When he regained his
composure, he revealed that Rav Chaim was his father and that this was the
first news he’d had of him since they were separated during the war. The two
men embraced warmly and emotionally.

As a
young man with no surviving relatives after the war, Rav Chaim’s son had been
sent to an irreligious kibbutz in Eretz Yisrael by an organization that rescued
orphaned survivors. A few years later he married a girl from the kibbutz and
they had one son.  Twenty-some years
later, that son served as a tank commander during the Six Day War. In the first
few days of the war, under intense shelling, the young commander lost a number
of tanks and men under his command. During a quiet moment in the night,
exhaustion overcame him and he slept. While he slept, he dreamed that he saw a pious-looking
man who said that he was his grandfather and assured his grandson that he would
survive the war if he began keeping Shabbos and the other mitzvos.

Awakened
by loud shelling and still under the spell of his dream, he decided to commit
himself to learn what it meant to be an observant Jew. By the end of the next
day’s intense battle this young man’s tank was the only one of his entire
command that was not destroyed.

True to
his promise, after the war the young commander left the irreligious kibbutz
where he had been raised and went to Yerushalayim to begin learning about Yiddishkeit.

When he
started living a life of Torah and observing the commandments, he asked his
father and mother if they would also become shomer Shabbos and keep the
laws of kashrus. His parents were in a quandary. His mother had learned absolutely
nothing about Judaism in her atheistic kibbutz and his father has stopped
observing anything long before. They consulted some rabbis in Israel and
listened to what they had to say. They happened to have a trip scheduled to the
States at that time, and they decided to seek the guidance of one of the renowned
Admorim while in America.
Their appointment with the Rebbe was scheduled for the next day.

Rav
Chaim’s son, with fresh tears, told Reb Shaya that now he knew why he had to
come to New York
and why he had come to pray in that shul and had sat down next to Reb Shaya.
This was clearly the Hand of G-d, pointing him along the way to a renewed
commitment to his Jewish heritage.

After
this astonishing experiencing, Rav Chaim’s son and daughter-in-law agreed to
leave the secular kibbutz and move to a religious community, where they were
able to lead a Torah-observant life. Perhaps Rav Chaim’s extraordinary devotion
to the sanctity of Shabbos and keeping the mitzvoth was the spark that remained
hidden for many years and later ignited the souls of his grandson and his son.

How
wondrous are the ways of Hashem!

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TO FLY OR NOT TO FLY

 

                                         
         We mortals make our plans and set up our schedules to the best of our abilities, but we never know what is planned for us from Above. Not only are we unconscious of what Hakadosh Baruch Hu has in mind for us, but we don’t even see the hidden potential locked within our deeds and decisions.

 

Even with the benefit of hindsight, we often miss the opportunity to perceive the Divine guidance in our lives.  Occasionally, however, Hashem parts the curtain and we are permitted a glance at the “larger picture” from the Heavenly perspective. This past Sukkos we became more aware than ever of the Divinely synchronized timetable that underlies all of our worldly decisions even though at first they may appear to be merely the product of our reasonable responses to constraints of time and circumstance.

 

This story actually began thirty-six years ago, when I was a young yeshivah bachur learning in Eretz Yisrael. A wonderful tzaddik by the name of Rav E. invited me for the first of many ensuing Shabbos meals at his home in Bnei Brak. That meal led to a lifelong friendship/mentorship, and Rav E. and his Rebbetzin became my surrogate parents in the Holy Land. They provided me with a warm Yiddishe home and a strong guiding hand as I proceeded along through life’s various milestones.

 

Upon making Casana, Rav E. and his Rebbetzin graciously prepared one of our sheva brachos and in our many years living in Eretz Israel they partook of every one of our family simchas or occasions of importance. Both he and his Rebbetzin were always available to us as a source of practical as well as hashkafic guidance.

 

Now some thirty six years later while living in Chutz LaAretz we planned to spend Sukkos in Eretz Yisrael, mainly to be with some of our married children and grandchildren who have settled there, along with the pure spiritual uplift one derives from being in the Holy Land at this time of year.

 

As with just about any travel plans, this one was not without its unplanned extra cost in time and money. At first, due to the few flying days between Yom Kippur and Sukkos this year, we found that all the airlines that fly to Eretz Israel were booked solid. One morning shortly before Yom Kippur our travel agent called to say that he had a couple of cancellations in hand, and he could now offer us a booking. Wonderful, right? The catch was that even if the plane were to arrive on time, which is a dangerous assumption at the best of times and certainly could not be counted upon in the holiday rush, the flight was due in at nine in the morning on Erev Sukkos.

 

I felt that this was cutting it too close, but somehow I managed to push away my fears because this visit to the Holy Land was truly important to us. The next day, however, when I called one of our sons in Yerushalayim and told him of the cancellation and my decision to book the ticket, I found out that the summer clock had already changed to wintertime and candle-lighting would be well before five o’clock. My hesitation and apprehension about taking that flight intensified, and with a refortified conviction not to take any chances with possibly desecrating the Holidays, I cancelled the booking. I explained to the agent that I would only book an earlier flight if one became available.

 

The day after Yom Hadin the travel agent phoned me with the good news that a few seats were now available on an earlier flight with a different airline, but I would have to pay an additional four hundred dollars. This was a stiff penalty for me, but in order to travel with peace of mind I agreed. Now the only detail left to settle was the return flight. The new ticket had a return flight a day later than my original ticket. Well, we thought, if we are paying extra anyway, we will stay an extra day in Eretz Hakodesh by way of compensation.

 

Baruch Hashem, all went well. We arrived well before Yom Tov and enjoyed a particularly uplifting chag with family and friends. However, on the morning of isru chag (our original departure date) we received a heartbreaking telephone call to inform us that our beloved Rav E. had suddenly passed away that morning. The levaya would be held a few hours later.

 

Only now did we begin to sense and appreciate the hashgachah that caused us to stay an additional day in Eretz Yisrael. We were able to attend the hespedim, the kevura and even be menachem avel with this tzaddik’s bereaved family. My beloved mentor had years earlier walked me down to the chuppah, and now, thirty-six years later I was privileged to escort him to his resting place.

 

The four hundred-dollar fine I had to pay for changing our tickets may have seemed costly at first, but relative to protecting the sanctity of the Holidays and the zechus of doing chessed shel emes, it was worth every penny and was, in fact, a timeless investment. The Creator of the universe is not only there for us “steering the wheel” of our destiny the right direction but He also provides for all our needs, as you will see when I tell you what happened upon our return to the States.

 

Awaiting us was a letter from the tax department) with a check inside, explaining that a correction had been made in calculating our taxes and they were now sending an additional refund. Believe it or not, the check was almost to the penny four hundred dollars.

 

We know the Creator has many ways and multiple shelichim via which he can recompense us for our good deeds. The Sages have clearly informed us that from the fulfillment of mitzvos we never lose out; we only need Heavenly assistance to see the connections.

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