ARE THE LAMBS STILL BLEATING?

                                        

              Pesach is a wondrous opportunity for transformation. The question is how can we use each detail of the original exodus to extract lessons that we can apply to our lives today?  For example how can we understand the contemporary lesson embedded in the Torah’s command to take a lamb or sheep for each household, tie it to the bedpost for four days, to ensure that it was blemish free and then bring it as the korbon Pesach.

              The Ramban suggests that G-d chose lamb and sheep for this offering because these types of animals were worshiped by the Mitzrim. The Midrash informs us that even though during these four days the Mitzrim heard these animals, who were tied to the bedposts, bleating, however Hashem rendered the Mitzrim helpless. Therefore, lets us try to connect this cryptic Torah section to our Pesach preparations by asking what is the significance of the fact that the lambs were “bleating” and they were tied specifically to the bedposts?

            Pesach is certainly one of those seasons where everyone increases their energy level in preparation for this beautiful holiday. However during this intense period of time, if one is not exceedingly careful, even with the best of intentions, he or she can step over the bounds of positive enthusiasm and be drawn into “blurting out” some inappropriate comment.

              Perhaps the Torah is therefore alluding for us how to subdue even the slightest urge to “blurt out” an angry comment – which is a form of avoda zora. How so? Just like that species of “bleating animals”, which was used for avoda zora, were tied to the bedposts, so one should tie down to the bedpost – ie – put to sleep – any inappropriate thoughts before they are “blurted out” and in turn Hashem will render helpless the power of the yetzer hora, just as He rendered helpless the Mitzrim.    

             May all of our good efforts to bring about a kosher Pesach help us merit once again the korbon Pesach in Jerusalem soon in our days.      

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PESACH – RECAPTURING THE INTEGRITY OF THE AFIKOMAN

  

 

             It’s the night (lay’l) of Pesach with all the family and guests joined together around the Seder table. After Kiddush on wine the head of the household (Bal HaBais)divides the middle matzah, wraps up the larger piece for the end of the meal (Afikomin) and puts it snugly  behind his pillow.  Later in the evening (seder) someone points to the place of the afikoman and whispers to the child, “Take it now, quickly, while he’s not looking.” The child hesitates, feeling quite shy having been brought up with proper values of respect and honesty. This night everything at the house looks so different. The table is much longer than usual filled with relatives and guests — it’s white and beautiful with lots of shiny glasses, sparkling silver. But then with a little more prodding and a burst of courage he moves closer to the treasured hidden away afikomen, hesitating, until some one prompts him, “Quick, grab it and run.”

  For a second, he feels afraid, but as soon as it is in his hand, he feels an exhilarating surge of excitement and exuberance. Even after hiding it he continues to feel energized and successful. Much later, when the child is asked to return the afikoman, he doesn’t give it right back, being prodded by others to first ask for a nice prize.

    Doesn’t this conduct seem a quite odd?  Here we are seemingly allowing our small untainted children to take something that doesn’t belong to them and on top of that extort a reward for their efforts on one of the holiest nights of the year. How can we possibly understand this conduct?

  Perhaps we can explain this unusual behavior as follows. Usually the selfish inclination (yetzer hara) tries to lure a person into improper behavior through offering feelings of ephemeral thrills and excitement. Even though we want to avoid such conduct, the problem we face is that we simply cannot discard the yetzer hara.  As in the well known book of Medrashim, when the Sages davened to remove the yetzer hara and Hashem answered their tefillos, even the chickens stopped laying eggs. The yetzer hara is necessary but needs to be controlled. The challenge to us is to sur mei ra, avoid evil, yet preserve our enthusiasm and direct it to our ma’asim tovim.  But how do we do this? 

   Perhaps, this is precisely what we are achieving when we encourage our children to take the afikomen.  We are allowing our young pure children to experience the excitement that is usually motivated by the yetzer hara when engaged in risky, dangerous and thrill seeking conduct.  We do this by giving them a controlled dose of the “taste of desire.” As the child grows up, that spiritual inoculation that was administered l’shem Shamayim with love will then continue to act as an antidote against the infectious negative powers of the yetzer hara.  Indeed, that dose of controlled enthusiasm, experienced by the child on lay’l Pesach, will enable him to rekindle those exuberant feelings throughout the year directing them in a positive mode while learning Torah, performing mitzvos and ma’asim tovim.

But how can experiencing this “controlled taste of desire” both act as a vaccine shielding the child from learning mis-conduct, while at the same time inspiring the him with enthusiasm for all things that are Holy? It is because of the setting in which this “taste” is given. Let us remember, the seder night is referred to as – lay’l shemurim, the night of Divine protection – the perfect night for this process to take place as it is a time when negative forces are subdued. 

    You may be wondering, how can this spiritual “inoculation” continue to protect us into our adult years?   Possibly the answer is we use “booster shots”!  Oh, we are not suggesting that this Pesach we grab the afikoman, however we should watch the one who is taking it and allow that “small child” inside each of us to relive and rekindle our own feelings of inner joy and exuberance, thereby rekindling our youthful enthusiasm in the service of Hashem.

May we all merit soon to be able to fulfill the mitzvah of afikoman in Jerusalem at the final geula soon in our days.

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   The attribute of exuberance and excitement was stolen by the yetzer when Adam and Chavea did the sin. On the night of Pesach we are able to re-capture our inheritance and return it to be used in the holy service of H. Since the yetzer took it through theft we re-capture it, through an act that looks like theft, at a time when the forces of evil are subdued.

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CHECKING IN – PESACH STYLE

                                                 

                     It’s just a just time before takeoff, friends have dropped off packages of gifts for their loved ones. We wondered how we were going to fit them all into our bulging suitcases. Before we knew it the car service driver was beeping. We quickly stuffed our cases closed and hoped the zippers would hold out. At the airport, bags in tow we followed an interminable line weaving towards the ticket counter. Upon reaching what was to be the first of many checkpoints the flight security attendant said with a polite, but serious smile:  “How are you today”? Passports and tickets please! Where are going? Is this your first trip there? Where will you be staying? Do you have any relatives there? Oh yes, who? Where do they live? ” He made light conversation but all the while his eyes were locked on ours without a flicker. They felt like x-rays and we got flustered. Somehow we even hesitated over the names of the places are relatives lived.  

As the grilling continued all  that was needed was a strong white light focused in our eyes to turn  it  into a full blown interrogation. “Tell me, did any one pack your bags for you? Do you have any electronic equipment inside your bags? Where did you get it? Did you take it from a shelf of the store by yourself or did someone give it to you? Was the package torn? Did anyone give you anything?” 

After the initial screening the security officer directed us over to yet another line to have our suitcases ex-rayed in what looked like a giant MRI machine. After our bags came out unscathed with a negative diagnosis, we proceeded to the check in counter. As we struggled to lift our suitcases onto the scales, they seemed to feel quite a bit heavier than they did at home – maybe it’s the gravity at the airport we chuckled. Miraculously the employee did not impose a fine for being overweight and with a sigh of relief we set off to scale our next hurdle.

             Moving further along the assembly line we were required to place outer garments, hand bags and all metal possessions on a rolling conveyer belt which passed them through another x-ray machine. Now, hatless, shoeless, jacketless, feeling slightly vulnerable and somewhat intimidated, we walk through the metal archway, which will determine whether we will be “pat searched”. We fortunately passed with good marks but we couldn’t help but notice another frum passenger who was sent to the side for a full blown pat down. Admirably he never lost his pleasant smile as he chatted cordially with the officer, adding after he was exonerated his appreciation for the fine work that the security personal provided. This was a real Kiddush Hashem that both we and that guard will never forget.

          Since everything that exists in the world is founded in the Torah, where can we find a Torah source for the interrogation and search of travelers? Yes. The first such search was conducted by Lavan – Jacob’s father-in-law.  When Lavan saw that (Ya’akov) Jacob has taken his family and left , he  chased after them,  bombarded them with a barrage of questions  and then, unsatisfied with the answers, made his own intrusive and thorough search of their possessions – (Parshas Vayeitzei). Some years later, the sons of Ya’akov are subjected to an interrogation and search at the hands of the second most powerful man in all of Egypt, not realizing at the time that that imposing personage was none other than  their brother (Yosef). (Parshas Mikeitz).

What lesson could we possibly learn from these two similar events?  Perhaps the key lies in the intentions of the searchers even more than the search itself. Lavan is the prototype of a clever swindler whose expertise lies in appearing to be superficially (lavan) pure even while his intentions were self-serving and even nefarious. We of course should do our best to steer clear of such people but when unavoidable we should always make the best out of the situation as our forefather Ya’akov did in the house of Lavan.

Of course when well intended loving relatives, true friends and dedicated people “question” our intentions and “search” into our motivations, like Yosef had done with his brothers, we should not resent but actually cherish their words and actions. Now also before Pesach, while we are checking very closely our homes and possessions, let us also check (bodek) every “nock and cranny” of our attitudes for any “leavened” behavior that has become “chumatz  or saor”. This vital search and removal mission is one of the hallmarks of the Pesach transformation that helps free us from the bondage of corporeal constraints and limitations thereby allowing us to travel vertically up the Pesach “ladder”.

 

 

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THE HIDDEN LIGHT – A HIDDEN TZADIK

 

Reb Shaya came to our door one evening and asked if he could tell us a story. He knew that we “collect” incidents that reveal the amazing intricacies of Hashem’s hashgachah pratis and we are especially inspired by examples of outstanding emunah and bitachon.

 

When we heard Reb Shaya’s account of what he lived through and witnessed during the Holocaust, we wanted to ensure that this amazing tale of mesirus nefesh does not suffer the fate of many other stirring stories of incredible heroism in the service of Hashem that no doubt took place in the raging inferno of Europe in World War II but are lost to us.

 

We hope that this story of how one Jew’s extraordinary courage and sacrifice reveal the wondrous workings of the Creator’s awesome master plan will serve to illuminate the path for succeeding generations.

 

At the tender age of fifteen, Reb Shaya was deported to Auschwitz and from there to a work camp in Eastern Germany. He considered himself relatively fortunate because, unlike many others, he found himself in a camp where the guards did not beat the prisoners senseless or awaken them cruelly in the middle of the night. Nevertheless, they were fed little and suffered constant hunger, while enduring long hours of back-breaking labor in bitter cold with a minimum of clothing.

 

Among the many unfortunate souls in that camp, there was one righteous Jew by the name of Chaim. He was an older man, yet he volunteered to work with a group of five strong, young men who were assigned to tote heavy metal rails to build a railroad loading station. Young Shaya also noticed that Chaim never ate his soup, which was the only hot dish given to the prisoners all day.

 

Shaya’s curiosity prompted him to ask Chaim for an explanation. Chaim, who had been the Rav of a shtetl before the war, explained that to save a life, a Jew is permitted to work on Shabbos, and any of the assigned jobs were permitted because their lives were in danger if they refused to do them. However, carrying the heavy rails on Shabbos would only infringe a prohibition of the Rabbanim rather than the stricter prohibition of the Torah. Performing other tasks like cutting or digging on Shabbos, which were less back-breaking, but they would involve the severer prohibition of de’Oraisa.

 

As for the soup, Rav Chaim explained, he gave his daily portion of soup to bribe the camp “barber” to shave him with a hand-operated shaver rather than a straight-edged razor. Indeed Rav Chaim tried to avoid being shaved whenever possible. To avoid calling attention to his unshaven face during the daily roll call, he tried to stand in the middle of the four hundred plus prisoners. 

 

On one occasion this strategy failed and the commandant noticed him for the first time. He called Rav Chaim forward and asked him where he worked.  The commandant, seeing that he was an older man, questioned the overseer why this man was assigned to the hardest work detail. The overseer informed the commandant that Rav Chaim not only volunteered but that he never took a day off, and was also one of the very best workers. The commandant insisted that he be transferred to a less demanding assignment.

Rav Chaim admitted to Reb Shaya that he took no time off because he didn’t want the other five men on his team to bear the extra burden his time off would have entailed.

Moreover, Rav Chaim whispered a nightly Torah lesson in the bunk that he and Shaya shared with six other men.  Those softly spoken words of Torah that Rav Chaim had so lovingly committed to memory in a different time and place provided solace and inspiration through the long dark nights in the camp.  

 

Rav Chaim also carefully and clandestinely and at great risk kept track of the Jewish calendar by marking the days on pieces of paper that came in the bags of cement and were smuggled into the bunkhouse. He informed all the Jewish inmates of the arrival of Rosh Chodesh and the Yomim Tovim. The behavior of this tzaddik not only heartened and strengthened Reb Shaya, but remained with him as a lifelong example.

 

They were separated when most of the prisoners, Rav Chaim included, were taken on a forced march of hundreds of miles to flee the oncoming Russians before liberation. Reb Shaya, too ill to move, remained behind and miraculously survived. Now, more than sixty years later he told us the epilogue to this story.

 

Reb Shaya settled in Brooklyn after the war. One Shabbos more than thirty years later, a new man sat down next to him in shul. After davening, he introduced himself to the visitor, who did not appear to be very observant, and asked his name and from where he came. The man said that he had lived most of his life in Eretz Israel but was born in a shtetl in Europe. Reb Shaya gasped as he recalled that this was the town where Rav Chaim had been the Rav. Reb Shaya began to recount Rav Chaim’s unforgettable acts of tzidkus and mesirus nefesh in the camp during the war.

The visitor listened intently to each word and began to cry. When he regained his composure, he revealed that Rav Chaim was his father and that this was the first news he’d had of him since they were separated during the war. The two men embraced warmly and emotionally.

As a young man with no surviving relatives after the war, Rav Chaim’s son had been sent to an irreligious kibbutz in Eretz Yisrael by an organization that rescued orphaned survivors. A few years later he married a girl from the kibbutz and they had one son.  Twenty-some years later, that son served as a tank commander during the Six Day War. In the first few days of the war, under intense shelling, the young commander lost a number of tanks and men under his command. During a quiet moment in the night, exhaustion overcame him and he slept. While he slept, he dreamed that he saw a pious-looking man who said that he was his grandfather and assured his grandson that he would survive the war if he began keeping Shabbos and the other mitzvos.

Awakened by loud shelling and still under the spell of his dream, he decided to commit himself to learn what it meant to be an observant Jew. By the end of the next day’s intense battle this young man’s tank was the only one of his entire command that was not destroyed.

True to his promise, after the war the young commander left the irreligious kibbutz where he had been raised and went to Yerushalayim to begin learning about Yiddishkeit.

When he started living a life of Torah and observing the commandments, he asked his father and mother if they would also become shomer Shabbos and keep the laws of kashrus. His parents were in a quandary. His mother had learned absolutely nothing about Judaism in her atheistic kibbutz and his father has stopped observing anything long before. They consulted some rabbis in Israel and listened to what they had to say. They happened to have a trip scheduled to the States at that time, and they decided to seek the guidance of one of the renowned Admorim while in America. Their appointment with the Rebbe was scheduled for the next day.

Rav Chaim’s son, with fresh tears, told Reb Shaya that now he knew why he had to come to New York and why he had come to pray in that shul and had sat down next to Reb Shaya. This was clearly the Hand of G-d, pointing him along the way to a renewed commitment to his Jewish heritage.

After this astonishing experiencing, Rav Chaim’s son and daughter-in-law agreed to leave the secular kibbutz and move to a religious community, where they were able to lead a Torah-observant life. Perhaps Rav Chaim’s extraordinary devotion to the sanctity of Shabbos and keeping the mitzvoth was the spark that remained hidden for many years and later ignited the souls of his grandson and his son.

How wondrous are the ways of Hashem!

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Rx PRESCRIPTION: PURIM – MEHAPECH HU –

           Rx PRESCRIPTION: PURIM FOR MOOD ENHANCEMENT                           

           DOSAGE: Twenty four hour spiritual “infusion” that keeps us elevated for the whole year.

           SUPERNAL “INGREDIENTS” : The four essential sacred “compounds” are Mikra Megillah, Shelach Manos, Matanos Le-Evonim and Seudas Purim along with either  just enough “high octane fluid” or a short snooze in order  to activate the  ad d’lo yada benefits.

            SOME OF THE IMMEDIATE RESULTS OF THIS UPLIFTING “REMEDY”: Guaranteed to “turn around” –mehapech hu – and transform any and all worries, woes and negative moods into joy, happiness and contentment.

“PRECAUTIONS” THROUGHOUT THE PURIM CELEBRATION: 

1) The first “dose” of the reading of the Megillah at night is to be “administered” on an “empty stomach” with total concentration for best “absorption”.

             2) Keeping a smile on your face is very contagious.

 3)   In order cut down excess “weight gain”, “trim” your pocketbook down as much as possible by giving generously.   

PROBABLE AND DEFINITE “SIDE EFFECTS” : Some people may find themselves irresistibly drawn to wearing amusing costumes and prancing around,  while everyone will radiate a blissful cheerful countenance and have a great time.

“CAUTION”:  Beware that the beneficial “side effects” of matanos l’evyonim and (mishloach manos) will arouse feelings of deep gratitude to Hashem for this opportunity to share with others. This will in turn cause even more serious “symptoms” of intense joy and generosity which can only be “cured” through the “antidote” of sharing with everyone even a bigger smile and as much as possible.

     FOR QUESTIONS RELATING TO HOW TO INCREASE YOUR JOY –  Call: THE  1- 800-PURIM  RAV HOTLINE. If no one answers – just “turn the phone upside down” and talk yourself into enjoying the festivities.

                                                                                                PURIM SAMEACH

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PURIM – THE TIME TO SEE BEYOND THE MASK

 

 

 

      

              On your way to (Pesach) Passover, don’t  pass over Purim.  Ah Purim, how we all appreciate you even though you tantalize us,  mystify us and  laugh with us as we struggle to understand you.   Like Yom Kippur, you help us to reach a destination called forgiveness but what a difference in the trip.  You allow us to atone for our sins with merriment and with eating and with drinking– a lot of drinking.    On Yom Kippur we abstain. On Yom Kippur we remove our shoes, while you get us to put on an extra pair of clown shoes. On Yom Kippur we refrain from anointing ourselves while you allow us to us smear our faces and bodies with extra creams and cosmetics. On Yom Kippur we stay awake and focused while you – Purim – lead us to take an extra drink and or a little extra sleep.  How does this happen?

             Maybe we can find an answer using  your mitzvah of drinking wine –everything becomes clearer with a little wine and even clearer with more wine  . . .  Let’s see, where was I ? Oh yes, Drinking can easily bring a person to frivolity and nonsense, yet you, Purim, are (mehapech) the opposite,  you make a switch and the wine we drink takes us up the spiritual ladder towards purity and strivings towards kiddusha.

You’re really clever.  You  fool our (yetzer hora) negative inclination by giving  it just what it wants lots of wine and maybe even some more and then all of a sudden, it can’t connive or deceive any more because (nichnas yayin yotzei sod) once wine goes in, on this unique holy day, then the inner yearnings of our pure Jewish soul come out. 

You put masks on us to strip our masks away. All of a sudden we may realize that our regular, ordinary, middle of the road conduct is really the result of our inner battle between these two forces. Now we get a chance to glimpse at our dark side and through the special loftiness of this day can actually laugh at it , with that laughter freeing us from its negative influence hopefully not just for this day, but forever.

When we see beyond the mask, we learn how not to judge. Throughout the year we may be guilty of too quickly evaluating and judging others on a very shallow level. On Purim when a (adel) sweet person puts on a scary mask, we are not frightened because we know that behind the mask is a precious soul.  So, too, in the real world, every Jew has good points which we should focus on and therefore not be so quick to judge anyone superficially.

               Ah Purim, you don’t have us simply ask (mechila) forgiveness, of our friends, you tell us to say it with presents.  How so? We give two gifts to at least one friend and minimally one gift to each of two poor people. One of the great Rabbis makes an observation asking why are we obligated to give at least double to a friend and only minimally one gift to each of the poor?  He answers that the poor gratefully accept whatever we offer, but we might have offended our friends over the course of the year and they may continue to harbor resentment. On Purim we are commanded to make a special effort to repair these breaches in all relationships especially those which have weakened. Therefore we should  “redouble” our efforts with sincere gifts and send a clear message to both close friends and  estranged acquaintances  that we are sincerely interested in healing the past and rebuilding the future together. Also we give them gifts that don’t need preparation – ie. ready to eat – to hint to them that they do not have to make any – preparations – changes in themselves – in order for us to accept them as they are.

            On Purim, the poor can make us rich.  One reason we are only minimally required to give one gift to each of at least two needy people is because as long as we don’t see the poor as our friends we ourselves are spiritually poor, however, if we see every Jew, including the needy, as our friends, then we will generously lavish them with gifts thereby taking them out of their physical poverty and ourselves our of our spiritual poverty.

       Ah Purim, leave us with one more gift, leave us with your special smile which inspires our hearts as we prepare for the next stage of our journey that being the wonderful Pesach transformation.

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POSITIVE MIND SET – MIND OVER MATTER HIDDEN WITH THE OLIVE

                                   

               A study was conducted by a team of researchers from New York University who used   functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI), in an effort to determine whether the trait of optimism can be identified with a particular area of the brain.  The subjects were told to think about the outcomes of important future events as they were being scanned.  The scans showed that the more optimistic the person’s outlook was, the more activity emanated from a part of the brain known as the Rostral Anterior Cingulate Cortex which the size of an olive (kezayis).  The implications of this discovery resonate in other areas of our lives and are worth some additional exploration.

          The propensity for optimism has long been a defining element of human culture. Winston Churchill, a previous Prime minister of England, once said: “A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity, whereas an optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.” Optimism produces a positive outlook that we perceive as joy.  Our holy (Torah) Jewish teachings instructs us to strive to achieve a state of happiness (simcha) – (mitzvah gedola li’yot b’simcha).  This heightened state of positive consciousness provides us with the incentive to improve ourselves and the world around us.

 In order to fulfill these optimistic goals, the Creator has provided us with food that contains within it sparks of holiness that are made available to be absorbed through the blessings (brachas) we say before and after eating.  The minimum amount of food required in order to say an after-bracha  is a ) an olive sized portion (kezayis) of the food. 

Can we find a connection between the (kezayis) olive sized portion of food necessary for an after bracha with the olive sized “seat” of optimism in the brain since spiritual reality is reflected in this physical world?  Perhaps one of the reasons that an olive has been chosen to represent the minimum size (shiur) for a concluding bracha is that its oil symbolizes wisdom and has the power to illuminate the darkness.  Similarly the blessings we say after eating contain profound spiritual wisdom which has the power to illuminate even the greatest darkness with the “light” of positive optimism.

            The more stringent view of some Rabbis (poskim) is that because of certain halachic factors, regarding the size referred to for the measurement of a shiur, it is preferred if possible to eat double the quantity – two kezaysim – before making an after-bracha. Perhaps we can also gain from these thoughts that, as we come closer to the final redemption (geula), since spiritual stature of the generations has lessened, and we should endeavor to “re-double” our efforts to reawaken our optimism. Perhaps you may you ask, where do we see two kezaysim in our fMRI models? Interestingly enough, there are actually two areas in the brain opposite each other, each about two inches from each of our ears where these optimistic impulses have been observed.  

              Our brachos act as spiritual “refineries” to transform the physical food into a refined source of spiritual energy. In the fourth bracha of the blessings after a bread meal (Bircat Hamazon) we say: “…He did good, He does good and He will do good to us. He was bountiful with us, He is bountiful with us, and He will be bountiful with us forever with grace and with kindness and with compassion, with relief and rescue, success, blessing , salvation, consolation, substance, support , compassion, life, peace and all good and of all good things may He forever not deprive us.

              After saying such a wonderful bracha blessing we should always be filled with optimism.

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PARSHA TERUMAH – THE STAVES WILL REMAIN ON THE SIDE OF THE ARK

                     In parshas Terumah 25: 8 – 16  states: “They shall make a Sanctuary for Me – so that I may dwell among them – like everything that I show you, the form of the Tabernacle and the form of all its vessels; and so you shall do. They shall make an Ark of acacia wood, two and one half cubits its length; and a cubit and one half its width; and a cubit and one half its height. You shall cover it with pure gold from within and from without you shall cover it, and you shall make a gold crown all around. You shall cast for it four rings of gold and place them on its four corners, two ring on its one side and two rings on its second side. You shall make staves of acacia wood and cover them with gold; and insert the staves in the rings on the sides of the Ark, with which to carry the Ark. The staves will remain in the rings of the Ark; they may not be removed from it. You shall place in the Ark the Testimonial-tablets that I shall give you.”

               Pusack 8 sets the foundational tone of the purpose of the making a Sanctuary for Me: that being – it is made for the purpose of fulfilling Hashem’s will of being a place where the (Shekina) Divine Radiance dwells and is revealed. “That I may dwell among them’– teaches each of us that in order to have the Divine Presence reveal itself within us we need to prepare ourselves a sincere pure place in our personal Sanctuary – that being are our transformed physical bodies allowing for the Divine Radiance connected to our (Neshoma) Soul to dwell within us. ‘Like everything that I show you, the form of the Tabernacle and the form of the vessels; and so shall you do’. That I show you is written in the present tense to teach us that continuously we must strive to build our Tabernacle and vessels anew, never resting on our laurels or being content with our past actions or efforts. The service of Hashem should always be seen and experienced as an ongoing inspirational growth and formation of renewing our personal Tabernacle. This requires us, in order to allow the presence of Hashem to be revealed within us, to break free of the bonds of physicality in both time and place transcending the finite thereby allowing ourselves to be unified with the Infinite.

               “They shall make the Ark of acacia wood…”– The Ark which is the vessel containing the Torah was gold plated inside and out with the center made of acacia wood. Acacia wood symbolizes growth and development which parallels our need to be constantly striving to rise upward, however this species of trees was not fruit bearing perhaps symbolizing that it is not our work that makes us fruitful but only the blessing from Hashem. Gold plaited inside represents the sincerity and purity of our thoughts. The gold plaited on the outside parallels the sincerity of our efforts.

          Pusak 12: ‘You shall cast for it four rings of gold and place them on its four corners…and insert the staves in the rings on the sides of the Ark, with which to carry the Ark. The staves shall remain in the rings of the Ark; they may not be removed from it.’ Rav S. R Hirsch expresses beautifully that the permanent presence of the staves symbolizes the concept that the Torah is not tied to any one place; wherever Jews go, willing or otherwise, our Torah goes with us, for the means of its transport is always attached to it. We also need to feel this way in our connection with the Torah that we are always attached to it no matter in what place or circumstance we find ourselves.

              The Cazal tell us that the Ark carried itself and those around it only looked like they were carrying it. This message travels with us through every moment of life. The Torah is eternal and emanates directly from her Infinite source. When we willingly accept upon ourselves to walk in the ways of the Torah – meaning guarding its precepts and fulfilling its commandments then Hashem will help us see who really “carries” us through life. May we merit to come close and travel with the Torah of Hashem that will light up the darkness paving a clear path leading to redemption, love and peace.  

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HAR SINAI – SEARCHING FOR THE MESSAGE

               This world is filled with treasure hunters—people looking for riches in all of its forms –wealth, power, position and glory.  They search high and low for clues and directional signposts to show them the way. A recent article reported on the activities of one of the most successful hedge fund managers in the world whose fund returns a whopping 36% a year (net before fees).  To accomplish this he uses  a  vast array of sophisticated computing equipment reputed to be worth over 600 million dollars and 150 employees who hold doctoral degrees in fields as diverse as  astrophysics and linguistics rather than in finance.  All of this combined brain power is used to sift through huge amounts of raw data eliminating what appears to be irrelevant information or “noise”  and  scrutinizing what remains for patterns with the goal of  discerning   investment trends and directions.  If we think about it, the tools for this search may be  new, but the methodology is not. It is the age old process of mining for minerals and gold by clearing through tons of dirt and rock  to reveal the riches within, using computers rather than digging tools.

            So much of mankind is on a seemingly never ending search for success and fortune, however, at best, their endeavors  produce only transitory gains. This is in contrast to the enduring legacy of our nation which we acquired 3300 years ago when we merited to receive the durable, eternal wealth of our holy Jewish teachings (Torah).

            At the giving of the Torah, we were not asked to be searchers seeking out subtle clues and vague directives.  We did not have to explore the heavens and plumb the depths of the seas.  We did not even have to climb to the top of the lowest mountain upon which it was given in order to receive it. It was brought down to us—by our leader and emissary, Moshe Rabbeinu. The question then as now was not how to find it,  but rather how are we to comprehend, appreciate and incorporate its treasured value into our lives?  There are maps and guideposts that are available to help us with this exploration.  All it requires is for us to take a fresh look at some old familiar landscapes.

              To start we might wish to consider the place of its presentation. The desert is a place that is separated from the busyness of the world—a place where the world’s standards and distractions do not impinge—a place where we lacked the ability to be self sustaining, but in fact had to rely upon the Creator’s (Hashem’s) kindness and protection.  In this place, greatness is measured in humility rather than in power and wealth for ones’ very survival depended upon the willingness to humbly accept the direction of the Creator of the Universe.  And thus we find our first  prerequisite for “mining” the treasure that is our Torah—that is the ability to allow the Torah to guide us rather than us making determinations that impose our own limitations upon it.

          Another key for accessing the Torah’s eternal wisdom and guidance is derived from the fact that it was given from above but was received below.  This alludes to the fact that the Torah emanates from a place that is “above” natural law, but in order for us to benefit from the wealth of our Torah these teachings need to descend into all facets of our lives.

             How does this happen? Ordinarily, it is difficult to evoke changes in habits and behavior, therefore perhaps the intense roaring thunder and streaking lightening bolts at Har Sinai may have been much more than just an introduction of the giving of the Torah but actually served to “jolt” the whole nation out of their old mind set in order to elicit the new spiritual revelation that was to follow.  For us it can serve as a lesson reminding us that  before valuable growth in the service of Hashem) can occur, there often comes a challenging “storm” – ie: a difficult situation or person that  jolts us and in so doing actually helps us to realign with Torah directed sensibility and sensitivity. 

             This perhaps explains the fact that the entire nation experienced a transposition of the senses in which they heard what they saw and saw what they heard. We, who are the beneficiaries of the Sinai revelation, can continue to benefit from this vital experience, if when hearing of some else’s difficult problems – we see what we can do to help them. Likewise when we see someone struggling – if we allow ourselves to hear our inner voice guiding us as to how we can react most sensitively to their needs, we will hopefully bring closer the final redemption (geula), may it be soon in our days.

             

 

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MITZVAH GORRERES MITZVAH – A GOOD DEED DRAWS ANOTHER GOOD DEED

             It was early evening and Rabbi and Mrs. Stein, who lived in New York, were on their way back to Jerusalem, where they were staying, after a nice visit with some of their family in the city named Betar Illit, when Rabbi Stein noticed a lone couple waiting at a bus stop on a cool evening. Since the Stein’s had room in their car, as well as warmth in their hearts, he pulled over and offered to take them to their destination. Upon entering the car, the couple introduced themselves as Rabbi and Mrs. Fried and then expressed their whole hearted thanks, as now they would hopefully be able to catch the last bus going to their home in the Northern (Galil) part of Eretz Israel and pick their children up from the babysitter at the time arranged. Throughout the ride they had a congenial conversation which focused on the Fried’s beautiful (shevah brochas) seven days of wedding celebrations for their oldest daughter which they just finished celebrating in this city of Betar.  As they reached the bus stop just in time, the Steins wished them well, said (mazal tov) congratulations again and Rabbi Stein handed Rabbi Fried two hundred shekels to give as a gift to their newlyweds.

            About five years later, Sarah and a few friends were on a bus making its way over the hills of the beautiful upper Galalee heading for the city of Tzaft for Shabbos. As Sarah, an (adel baalas teshuvah) a sweet sincere spiritual searcher from the States, looked out at the constantly changing breathtaking scenery, she began to reflect on how her spiritual journey likewise had taken many amazing twists and turns from the halls of secular academia to an English speaking (kiruv) Jewish seminary for beginners in the Holy  land. 

           Little did Sarah know how much the double holiness of Shabbos and Tzaft would add another wonderful turn in her spiritual metamorphosis! Without knowing them previously Sarah’s hosts, the Stein family, who had recently moved to Tzaft from New York, were very impressed by her sincerity and good (medos) attributes, took her aside privately and spoke with her a few minutes about a possible (shidduch) wedding match with a fine young man named Yosef who had a similar background and excellent medos that had graced their Shabbos table a few weeks earlier. After Shabbos since Sarah sounded interested in hearing more the Steins gathered information from both Yosef and Sarah – the numbers of friends, relatives and (Rabbanin) Rabbis – so that they could try to put together the shidduch. Within a week the Steins were given a “green light” for Yosef and Sarah to meet at their home. It wasn’t too long, with some minor turns and twists, before the Stein’s were being congratulated for helping this lovely couple to become engaged. Over the few days a number of people asked the Stein’s how they merited to be the (shadchans) match makers for this amazing shidduch of this beautiful couple who each came to (Yiddishkit) Orthodox Judaism with such great (merias nefesh) efforts and sacrifice. The Stein’s themselves didn’t have a clue as to how to answer this question, until the day before the (la-chaim) engage party, when Rabbi Stein received a phone call from a man named Rabbi Fried who was the one who originally arranged for Yosef to be a guest at the Stein’s for a Shabbos a number of weeks earlier.

           After exchanging mazal tovs, Rabbi Fried, who was the one who introduced Rabbi Stein to the then( bacor) bachelor Yosef just a few weeks earlier with the intention of helping him find a shidduch, added the following; “You probably don’t remember when and where we first met, so let me tell you so that you can better understand possibly why it was you merited to be the shadchan for this wonderful shidduk. About five years you not only were kind enough to pick up me and my wife up at a bus stop in Betar but you also added the mitzvah of (hachnasas kallah) helping our daughter – the bride. Therefore perhaps that mitzvah with us and our daughter drew with it this mitzvah of (chason) groom and kallah – as the Chazal teach us:  

Mitzvah gorreres mitzvah!!!  A good deed draws with it another good deed

May we all be (zoche) merited to fulfill many mitzvoth

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